First I’d like start by saying something very important, and if you remember anything, please remember that YOU WILL GET THRU THIS! This is just a temporary moment in time. You are the not the first or last person trying to heal from a break up. During this time you can decide to grow or sink. This is a resource about rebounding, the right way, and starting a love affair with God. That unconditional love and acceptance that we desire will only ever come from one source, and that is our heavenly father. He loves us so much and is waiting for us to come to him, so that he can heal our hearts. No one will ever love us as much as he does, and its time to allow him to heal our hearts, make us whole, and begin a long-term relationship with him.
So if you’re ready to move on, keep reading.
Matthew 11:
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Please be mindful that this is a fight. In order for these methods to work, you have to be prepared to fight. You’ll have to fight for your sanity, fight for your healing, and fight for your happiness. Understandably, when you’re newly broken up, this can be a challenge. Maybe you’ve been fighting for so long to save your relationship or you've spent most of the relationship battling against your significant other so now you’re tired, over it, hurt, and exhausted. Now that it's over, you may feel discouraged and tired. But this is the time when you need to fight the most. It's a little uncomfortable in the beginning, but making the decision to fight to move on each day will be the backbone of getting over your past.
My hope and faith comes from reading and hearing the Word of God, which is why I've included scriptures. Each day will consist of very light reading and prayer/centering thoughts to meditate on as you go throughout your day. I find that the more I say something, the more I tend to believe it. Therefore, you will be asked to recite these prayers because there is power in speaking things into existence. The more you say something, the more you will believe it. The meditation step is also important because if you can see or imagine your desires, you can manifest it in your life. So if you're comfortable praying and referencing scriptures, and receptive to believing on the promises God has given you, you'll be on your way to a remarkable recovery. It's worked for me every time, and I pray that this will also work for you too.
During this "detox" and healing I also highly recommend listening to encouraging music. Music that makes you happy and music that gets your hopes up. Personally, praise songs do the trick for me! But, again, whatever music lifts your spirits play it. Every day.
So let’s get to it.
Prayer (Recite aloud. Repeat until you believe):
Thank you, Lord. This breakup may be tough right now, but I know that I will be grateful for this someday. In fact, I choose to receive the blessings from this breakup today. I receive your favor and unconditional love. Your word says that no weapon formed against me shall prosper, and that is what I choose to believe and receive. I am not a victim. I am a fighter. I am strong and persevere. I will not give up on myself. I will not give up on love. I trust this process and will operate on your divine timing. So thank you, Lord, for where I’m at today. Greater things are coming. Doors are opening. I open my heart to you, and receive your blessings now. Help me develop a special inseparable relationship with you Lord. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Attorneys
Partner
Angeline Harris
From working at the prestigious Lee, Wooden & Ziegler LLP to opening her own practice in 2001, Angeline has represented Arts & Entertainment clients large and small for nearly 20 years. She made headlines in 2010 when she secured the “Kingston Woman” rights to songwriter Helen Jones and continues to provide the same dedication to all her clients. Practicing since the first internet boom, Angeline has hands-on experience with how technology affects the creative industry. Staying ahead of the law’s frequent changes is Angeline’s sixth sense.
Education
ATLANTIC LAW SCHOOL
Juris Doctor, 1997
IVY UNIVERSITY
B.A., Film & Music, 1994
Activities & Affiliations
• ABCD Bar Association, Member
• IP Law for Creatives Association, Member-at-Large
• Civil Rights Conservation, Secretary
Bar Admissions
• New York, Tennessee, California
Partner
Spencer Ingram
Spencer focuses on the various facets of law that revolve around digital media and technology, whether that’s securing patents and trademarks for wearable tech or negotiating distribution agreements for the now prolific AZL App. Prior to co-founding Harris Ingram, he managed the tech startup accounts for Lee, Wooden & Ziegler LLP. Spencer has represented and advised entrepreneurs on best legal practices for their business for over 15 years.
Education
PIERCE SCHOOL OF LAW
Juris Doctor, 1999
WORLD UNIVERSITY
B.A., Economics, 1995
Activities & Affiliations
• ABCD Bar Association, Member
• Constitutional Conservation, Member
Bar Admissions
• New York, Illinois, California
ASSOCIATE
Isabel Sonam
Isabel got her start working under Hugo Walters, Esq., director of the ABC Fashion Institute. She specializes in all things related to fashion law, whether that’s securing a trademark for a logo design or helping clients work through federal textile laws. Before joining Harris Ingram, she was an associate at fine arts practice Veronica Chin, PLLC. Isabel also represents fine artists, galleries, appraisers, and more on art litigation matters.
Education
EMPIRE LAW SCHOOL
Juris Doctor, 2002
NAMELESS UNIVERSITY
B.A., Art History, 1999
Activities & Affiliations
• ABCD Bar Association, Member
Bar Admissions
• New York, California